A Greek Orthodox Easter

THE Greek Orthodox Church celebrated Easter this past weekend and once again it was a privilege to share the festivities in north London with the Greek Cypriot family of Xenia, my daughter-in-law.

Easter is a deeply religious occasion for the Orthodox community, which marks the occasion with fasting and then feasting, with midnight on the Saturday marking the end of one and the start of the other.

At 10.30pm, we left the family home in Edmonton, walking through the streets of this densely packed and ethnically diverse area to the Church of Dimitrius. Along the way, we met up with hundreds of other families making their way on foot to the church to observe the final hour before Easter Day.

We went inside the already packed church to buy our candles and then waited outside for the church lights to be extinguished. Thousands - including a remarkable number of younger people - were now gathered on the road as the church went dark and the main part of the service began.

When the lights went back on, candles lit from a flame within the church were brought out and from this one light, all our candles were lit to celebrate midnight and Easter Day.

We walked back home with our candles alight and these were not extinguished but allowed to burn out on their own accord.

Most Orthodox people, but especially women, had fasted for days before the midnight light shone, eschewing meat and dairy products, and attending Holy Communion at least once on one of the three holy days.

But how they made up for it on Sunday. Xenia's mum and day Anastasia and Aki provided a fitting bamquet for family and friends. The community's traditions are proudly observed, and quite rightly so.

Their heritage and culture is being absorbed into our own which is no worse off for it. But waht a pity that "English" people are made to feel ashamed by the chatterers in our society for wanting to celebrate St George's Day, singing the national anthem, and waving either the flag of St George or the Union flag.

        

posted on 24 April 2006 11:40 by Graham Dines

Comments

25 April 2006 19:13 by Jane

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A lovely little commentary on a very holy day. You were very lucky.

Jane
25 April 2006 19:14 by John Robertson

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Thankyou for sharing your experiences with us.
25 April 2006 19:16 by Maria and Andrew

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Greetings from the Greek Orthodox community in Great Yarmouth.

Maria and Andrew
26 April 2006 22:23 by Arri

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Graham

I am pleased your family is part of our community.
I would like to know details

Arri
27 April 2006 12:44 by Graham Dines

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Graham Dines writes:

Many thanks for these comments. For Arri:

My son was married last September in the Greek Orthodox Cathedral in CAmden Town.

His bride was Xenia, whom he met at work. She was born in England, but both her parents are of Greek Cypriot origin and live in Edmonton in north London.

Graham

They are a lovely, welcoming family and we are proud to know them.

Graham
27 April 2006 14:03 by Paul Simon

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Another good Graham Dines' article marred by a needlessly sneering last paragraph. Perhaps he could identify the 'chatterers' to whom he refers? Or is he just setting up a distant bogey figure with which to frighten his readers?

He also says that "their heritage and culture is being absorbed into our own which is no worse off for it" and so makes the common mistake that the 'majority' culture should only influence the minorities' ones and not the other way round.

He should remember that we are a stronger society for being a chicken tikka masala culture than not.

28 April 2006 15:10 by Graham Dines

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Paul Simon, Babergh council's public relations officer, only needs to look back 20 years to the "loony left" in local government who always equated patriotism with nationalism and frowned upon it. They decried the national anthem. Their spirit lives on in the Guardian-reading "thinkers" who can't stand the idea of either Englishness or Britishness.
I'm pleased that Gordon Brown regards Britishness as no bad thing - in fact he wants a British Day to celebarte the strength of the union following devolution.
As for frightening my readers, if Paul Simon re-reads the article, he will know - as other bloggers fully appreciate - that I am celebrating the fact of the coming together of two family from different traditions and cultures.
I take deep exception to his contrary, distorted interpretation.
He clearly doesn't understand the phrase "that their heritage and culture is being absorbed into our own which is no worse off for it" means English society is being improved not diluted. Fortunately other bloggers understand that.
He berates me by writing the following: "He should remember that we are a stronger society for being a chicken tikka masala culture than not."
Where on earth have I said anything to the contrary? Pure drivel.
I've eaten more Greek and Cypriot food in the last 3 years that he will have done in a lifetime. And I'm proud and honoured to have done so.
Don't distort what I say to justify the assertion that I am "needlessly sneering."

29 April 2006 12:17 by Ari

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Take no notice of Paul Simon, Graham. The Greek Cypriot and Orthodox communities know you were not sneering. You and your family are most welcome.

Ari
04 May 2006 17:16 by Andrew in Great Yarmouth

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Dear Graham

We all think your sentiments were wonderful. Very much appreciated - I just cannot understand that Paul Simon.